Guide to Writing Sympathy Notes

Sympathy messages for a friend.

• I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I am always here for you, and I am sending you love and strength during this distressing time.
• I am thinking about you and sending my heartfelt sympathies and condolences.
• Although I don’t know what you are feeling right now, I do understand what it’s like to lose a friend.
• Losing a loved one is something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. It feels like a cloud has cast a shadow over you. Please know it won’t always be that way. The clouds will clear, and the sun will shine again. When you need some sunlight, I will never be far away. You have my deepest condolences.
• Saying goodbye to someone as important as [insert name] is devastating. Although I cannot replace [him/her/them/etc.], I am here to support you with hugs, a shoulder to cry on, and the reminder that you are not alone.

Sympathy messages for a family member.

• [Name], I am so sad to hear that [name] died. I am thinking of you and [names of other affected family members]. I hope that you feel wrapped in love and support.
• Learning of [Name]’s passing was gut-wrenching. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you are finding strength in your family and the love of your friends; please know we are here for you.
• It is my prayer that our shared memories of [name] will bring comfort during this time.
• Remember you are not alone.
• Know that you are a credit to [name]’s memory. I am sure that [he/she/they/etc.] would be thinking of you fondly and with pride for who you are and how you live your life.
• I am here for you. We’ll get through this together.
• My heart is with you during this time of loss and in the days to come.

Sympathy messages for the loss of a Partner.

• I wish that I could ease your pain and help you heal. I hope that this message at least lets you know that I am thinking of you always. My heartfelt sympathies go out to you in this difficult time.
• In times of sorrow, it is not always easy to see the light. If I can help you find a glimmer by giving thanks for the gift that was the life of [name], please know that is what I am trying to do. [Name] was a truly special person, and I am so grateful that you had [him/her/them/etc.] in your life. May [he/she/they/etc.] be at peace.
• I hope you find these flowers as beautiful as (name)’s spirit, and know I’m thinking of you in this sad time.
• Please accept this arrangement as a sign of my deepest condolences.
• I remember (name) always loved (type of flower). I have so many wonderful memories of him/her. So sorry for your loss.